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Creating Goals - Dealing With Reality - The Power
of Keeping Track
Keeping track creating goals - dealing with reality
creates clarity and keeps me honest to myself. It keeps
me accountable for my behavior - for my own choices.
I don't have to share my records with anyone else. I
find when I keep track, good things happen - probably
because I am dealing with reality, and not with that
enemy of clarity - selective memory.
An example:
I am constantly battling my weight. I'm always chasing
that elusive "ten pounds" that so many of
us just never seem to get around to losing. Unfortunately,
that "elusive ten" sometimes balloons to twenty
pounds - or even a little bit more.
You know when that happens? It happens to me when I
decide I don't want to spend the time to keep track
of what I eat and drink. Keeping track in this case
means keeping a diary of everything I eat, with calories,
fats, carbs and proteins counted, and comparing my actual
intake to the goals I have set every day. I reach a
point where I am convinced that I know - from past experience
and from past keeping track - how much I can eat and
what I can eat So why spend the time on recording what
I already know?
Unfortunately, I have a pretty good case of selective
memory. It's so easy to remember the good days and so
easy to forget the bad days. To slip from reality into
a state where I fool myself. As Ingrid Bergman once
said Happiness is good health and a short memory.”
As an actress, she didn't have to deal with reality
very few of us have that luxury.
The last time I made the decision to stop recording
what I eat, I gained ten pounds in the following ninety
days - ten pounds that becomes more and more difficult
to shed as I get older. No big change in eating habits
- no change in exercise habits - just a little bit here
and a little bit there. And a selective memory that
fooled me into believing I hadn't really changed my
eating habits. I'm back to keeping track, and I see
where those little snacks and larger portions that I
kidded myself into believing would have no effect did,
in fact, add weight.
If you're dealing with weight, or self development,or
job performance, or any of a thousand other challenges
and goals, keep track. Write down what is most important
to you and then keep track of how you are progressing
toward where you want to be. It doesn't have to be an
involved process - keep it simple so you persist in
recording. And keep it honest that's where clarity and
reality start.
In my experience, and the experience of many, many
successful people, keeping track in the form of goals
is
the most important single thing you can do to reach
where you want to be.
Do it today pick out one thing in your life that you
really want to change, improve or attain. Then define
your goals, and then spend 10 minutes a day keeping
track of your progress. It's the best 10 minute investment
you can make.
Author: Andrew Cox
Andy Cox helps clients align their resources and design
and implement change through the application of goals
focused on the important few elements that have maximum
impact in achieving success - as defined by the client.
He can be reached at http://www.coxconsultgroup.com
or at acox@coxconsultgroup.com
Keywords : keeping track, creating goals, create
clarity, deal with reality, accountable for behavior
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