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How To Handle Awkward Moments With Women. Copyright
© 2008 Ignite
You are going to have to live with awkward moments
in your life because they happen every single day you
communicate with another human being, unless of course
you never leave your house and don't have any contact
with the outside world apart from your parents.
You need to learn how to enjoy awkward moments WHAT!!!
Enjoy awkward moments, how is that even possible. I
don't think of awkward moments as awkward, I think of
awkward moments of opportunity and challenge where I
can be that one step ahead and always have something
BETTER to say to a woman.
Women will TEST you to see how well you can handle
awkward moments as well and if you suck at them then
that is a sure way to let her know that you are not
in control of the situation. So you better get used
to awkward moments because they are not going to go
away. I am sure you have had friends or family members
say to you "well that was awkward." You should
always have something to say to a woman, don't just
stand there and look at her and hope that the conversation
is going to magically happen because it is not and the
same goes for if you are out with a woman.
Now sometimes women will reignite the conversation
especially if they are attracted to you because don't
forget it's only awkward if you make it awkward.
How did you meet your best friend? How did you meet
your girlfriend? They all start of as strangers at some
point and you needed to engage in the conversation talking
to them. You might not think that awkward moments matter
and it is only something small that you don't need to
worry about but it is actually HUGE in interacting and
communicating. If you can't handle awkward situations
and make them fun then you are not going to be able
to go that step further with women.
Being able to handle awkward situations shows to
women that you are comfortable actually too comfortable
which gets to them because most women want all guys
on their toes running around them.
So when awkward situations arise how do you handle
them? Always have something to say and always have something
better to say back to the woman and be prepared. The
more prepared you are the more chance you have of success
with women. I have noticed that the faster you respond
to a woman the more they get confused it is like they
get hit with a stun gun for a few seconds and they have
to stop and think about what was just said.
I have heard things such as "You're an asshole",
"Men are all assholes", "Men only think
with their head downstairs", "and How come
men all do this." This will happen to you when
you interact with women and it's a test and if you don't
know how to respond then you are going to create that
awkward silence and not get very far.
When you ask for a woman's number and she says no.
Now most guys will walk away or say oh ok it was nice
talking to you and end it straight away. You will find
that if you stay there and keep talking to the woman
and have an attitude of not caring if you got her number
or not she will often be begging you for yours when
you decide to leave.
I know you have all experienced this awkward situation
before. When you attempt to kiss a woman and she pulls
away or does not let you. MOST guys will say "oh
sorry, I didn't mean anything by that" or just
sit there in silence, creating awkwardness. If you
attempt to kiss a woman and she turns away or says no,
all you have to do is interrupt her pattern of thinking.
I usually ask women straight after "would you eat
a handful of crickets for $500 dollars. Now they are
a bit shocked though enjoy it. All you are doing is
pretending like nothing happened.
So always have something better to say and always
be that step ahead of women and they will always be
wondering what next. The more of a challenge you are
to a woman the more they will chase you.
Author: Ignite
My alias name is Ignite I have been in the dating game
for several years now and I will be sharing my profound
knowledge and secrets with you to get this part of your
life under control http://datingcoresecrets.com
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awkward, awkwardness, kiss, interacting, attraction,
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